Parent-Child Relationship: From Cradling to Letting Go

A parent-child relationship is a unique and delicate bond. Despite being connected by blood, parents and children embark on a journey of continuous separation from the very beginning.

The first separation occurs when a baby leaves the mother's body and becomes an independent individual. Then, as toddlers, they learn to wean and walk, cultivating their autonomy. As they enter childhood, they learn self-care and start going to school, further developing their independence. During adolescence, the desire for autonomy intensifies, and they engage in more activities and social interactions outside the family. Finally, children grow up, pursue careers, and form their own families, becoming parents themselves.

As parents, each separation may trigger brief moments of sadness. However, every stage of separation signifies the child's growth, like a fledgling bravely spreading its wings and gaining a broader perspective. We cannot and should not hinder these separations because the beauty of the parent-child relationship lies not in holding on tightly, but in letting go at the right time and allowing the child to fly freely.

From the constant care of cradling an infant to the gradual act of stepping back and letting go at different stages, it is not an easy task for parents. Therefore, let us cherish the time spent with our children in each stage and strive to create a safe harbour for them, empowering them with the courage to explore, learn, experience setbacks, and grow.